I no longer have any teenagers. Youngest son turned 20 on Thursday and I wasn’t invited to his drink in. Complaining to son number 1 he asked ‘would you have gone if you’d been invited’ ‘No I said but it would have been nice to be given the option to refuse’ ‘I guess he couldn’t risk the fact that you might have accepted’. So the end of another era. All sons now in their 20s and I don’t feel more than 25 myself.