At the weekend I went on the most baffling and spiritually intriguing course I’ve ever experienced. You might know it as Family Constellation as i did, but discovered that it’s actually more accurately described as Systemic Constellation. Even those who have experienced it finds it difficult to explain what happens. The blurb in the course details says
‘Systemic Constellation is a highly practical method for making the hidden dynamics within systems visible, revealing the nature of a situation and its possible resolution’
For systems – read family; because it is essentially about healing family relationships. So what’s new I hear you ask, lots of courses are about that. The difference is that this one heals realationships from past generations – ancestral stuff – as well as the more immediate bickering and in-fighting that goes on in families today. It works on the principle that if a family member is forgotton/not spoken about (usually for shameful reasons) some other person in the family will find a way to represent them by taking on one or more of their qualites (usually unsociable or disruptive ones) until the person who is not spoken about is acknowledged. Lets say someone committed a crime or was a drunk, drug addict, or wifebeater and everyone in the family refuses to talk about them. Some new child being born will agree at some spiritual level to take on some of those qualities and represent them in the family until the original family member is acknowledged and spoken about again – this may go on for several generations. I saw such generational healing taking place.
I shared a most transformational weekend with 9 other people who all helped me to understand the longstanding conflict I’ve been having with one of my sons and to find a resolution and heal the situation. Thanks to you all. You might like to know that in light of the burden my son has carried all his life to have his dead siblings remembered we’ve agreed that I’ll call him by another name to mark the fact that he has put down his load and started a new phase of life.
It is extremely difficult to put into words what happened but if you are interested contact Vivian Broughton on email@example.com or look at her website http://www.constellationswork.co.uk/ She is a most amazing facilitator